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Old 22 November 2008, 04:39 PM
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Comment: Is it true that a family member dies when a baby is born? It
seems to be consistant in my family that whenever a baby is born, an
elderly family member dies. It's actually gotten to the point where it's
expected, and people just say "A life for a life." Does this happen to
many other families?
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Old 22 November 2008, 05:08 PM
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Gee, if that were true, the world's population wouldn't be increasing, would it?
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Old 22 November 2008, 06:23 PM
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Not true in my family; my maternal grandmother has 19 grandkids, of which I'm the oldest at 21. There's been exactly two deaths in the family since I was born; my grandpa when I was 4, and my great-grandma a few years ago.
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Old 22 November 2008, 07:08 PM
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Certainly not true in my family--my maternal grandmother managed to hang on through over 50 grandkids and great-grandkids.

I can see why it might sometimes seem that way in less prolific families, though. Combination of coincidence and roughly corresponding numbers in each generation.

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Old 19 December 2008, 05:31 PM
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Why of course it makes sense - Da died, and two whole years later, my hell in a handbasket sister had a baby girl!
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Old 19 December 2008, 05:42 PM
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And after years of research, we figured out that a guy who died a month after I was born was, like, my mother's fourth cousin.

Weird!
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Old 19 December 2008, 06:34 PM
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Then the Duggars would have no relatives left. Sorry, that was completely obvious.

In our families it seemed like a bunch of elderly relatives seemed to be hanging on until DH and I got married. I have no idea why. We went to a lot of funerals that first year together.
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If it's true, my parents are going to be immortal. Neither I nor my sisters are having children (we're all in our 40s now).
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Old 20 December 2008, 12:54 PM
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I can see why it might sometimes seem that way in less prolific families, though. Combination of coincidence and roughly corresponding numbers in each generation.

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Or else this family has a family member that offs old folk so that the population doesn't go up.
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If it's true, my parents are going to be immortal. Neither I nor my sisters are having children (we're all in our 40s now).
Oh DOYC, I'm glad in that case I sired at least one child, but regret I didn't sire two (does a stepchild count?)
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Oh DOYC, I'm glad in that case I sired at least one child, but regret I didn't sire two (does a stepchild count?)
Well as I understand the old wives' tale, the relative dies when the child was born so a stepchild shouldn't affect your prospects
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Well as I understand the old wives' tale, the relative dies when the child was born so a stepchild shouldn't affect your prospects
Double pooh and chips!
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Old 20 December 2008, 06:15 PM
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Double pooh and chips!
Indeed - it has already done its damage before it gets to you
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