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Old 07 February 2019, 10:11 PM
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Location: Southern Ohio
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Until I got badly ill last year I had hip length, died auburn hair. When I wore it loose I got many spontaneous compliments, mostly from white men.

My theory is that the compliment is given to encourage the recipient to keep the attractive feature and men feel more free to push women to do so.

I'm a white, older, female with neck length brownish/grey hair now, and the only compliments I get are on my weight loss.

Edited to add: EQ hair might go splodey without pic, I fear.

"How did you lose so much weight! You look wonderful!"

"Stage 4 renal failure" is not the answer they were looking for.
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